Let go unhealthy & hurtful relationships or die; word to the African millennials

Following the latest news and events related to love, relationship and marriages I must say, seem to  have become a gambling affair. It's either you lose or gain. Relationship(s) in these generations Y and Z{millennials and post millenials} isn't a relationship if there are no relationship 'goals' . These generations are truly defined and driven with most compromising rules and regulations that they must follow in order to be noticed and appreciated in the society which is pretty much sad reality of the day? Individuals start relationships not because they are in love but because their friends,mates or relatives are in relationships. Others fall in love in order to fit in in the trendiest relationship goals imitating the richest and well established celebrities for instance the Carter's. Some are in obvious sad relationship for money and materialistic benefits that come as a bonus. Others are in relationships for fame. All these are just but a few reasons for why individuals are in lame relationships. Recently we have witnessed deaths of young men and women. Most commit suicide due to depression caused by overthinking and stress, many are fighting this disorder called depression. When you set your expectations so high and you fail to meet them you will be more than disappointed right? For instance, we have heard of young girl who committed suicide because his boyfriend won't take responsibility for her pregnancy. The girl was over stressed, and the only option she had was to take her life. This girl had a whole life ahead of her if she had taken a step to talk to someone especially her parents maybe she would be alive today. The boyfriend then joins her by committing suicide,why? A guilty conscience! Such is life!! Recently a sad story of Ivy who was axed to death by his boyfriend Naftali has made rounds on social media sites, Ivy was allegedly accused of 'golddigging' Naftali and then she started avoiding him, Ivy's friends on the other hand came to her rescue and say Naftali couldn't take a no for an answer and so he carried out an inhuman act! Would he have taken a step to examine his anger he would be in a totally different place right now, not in jail!! It's always a thick line between life and death. Choose wisely! Marriages don't last because people choose to spend money to throw a lavish wedding , wear designer outfits for the world to see! People live for that one day celebration and forget that marriage is a contract signed for life until death do them apart. We have cheating spouses all over the world, let it be crystal clear that if anybody chooses to cheat it's a personal choice. There should be no exchange of blames that your partner was the reason you cheated ,note that you deliberately chose to be unfaithful and selfish! As earlier mentioned let go or die, sometimes it's best if you walk away and find serenity in another place than hold on and loose absolutely everything. Anger can make you kill a cheating partner, burn them, insult them, stab them or poison them. Depression can make you commit suicide, have low self esteem, enhance loneliness and you will hate everyone around you. It doesn't hurt to avoid adultery, in fact it saves your energy and money,protects your dignity and reputation. Let's kill the perception of relationship goals if its not working for you and your partner . If you can't love let go! If you cannot forgive and forget let go, Let go today and save a Life!! ReplyForward